Thoughts on a topic of the season

This time of year brings with it thoughts of the new year and reflections on the past. As of late, I find myself pondering the notion of forgiveness and all that it entails.

I find the ideal of absolute forgiveness given simply by asking it, although admorable on the part of the forgiver, unreasonable. For someone to be forgiven, I feel that they should first be able to recognize their error, understand the outcomes of that error and honestly work to deserve the forgiveness that they are asking for. If forgiveness is given without this, nothing is learned. Instead, people are not asked to be responsible for the outcomes of their actions and the more and more people will be taught that their actions should be about themselves only.

I am not saying that people should have to "jump through hoops" to gain something that only makes us stronger in the long run. Forgiveness should be given, but only once the error has been recognized and compensation at least attempted.

I am curious about how others feel about this topic. If you would, please share your opinion.